Review: ‘Indescribable 100 devotions about God and science’

‘Indescribable 100 devotions about God and science’ by Louie Giglio is a new book of devotions all with a scientific focus. When I saw it advertised I pre-ordered I was so excited at the thought of devotions that would overlap with a special interest, and I hoped that being focused on science it might also be full of facts and details which would also appeal.

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We began reading, B & I, on New Years’ Day, and I have not been disappointed! Each day has been packed with interest grabbing facts and insights about our world – the main topics focused in on are space, earth, animals, and people (they are spread about through the devotions if you follow day by day but at the front is a contents which also groups them into these categories so you could read by topic if preferred). There is so much detail in each thought that we have even come across facts B didn’t already know (no point in me adding that there are lots & lots I don’t know, take that as read! – but I have been able to follow).

Each devotion must take about 2 or 3 minutes to read and include the Bible verse, and there are drawn pictures and photographs (next to bonus facts to think more about) on each page, and a prayer you can use together. I think it would be accessible for confident readers to use alone, but we are enjoying them together and mostly finishing with our own prayers – because we have a set way that has evolved over time.

Although I have started reading with B I think it will also appeal to T (now 7) so when the moment is right I may tentatively see if I can build it into my bedtime routine with her & see what she thinks. But I love it!

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Other devotions we have loved:

‘Thoughts to make your heart sing’ by Sally Lloyd Jones

‘God and me’ by Penny Boshoff was great when B & A were little, and still dipped into by T as she loves the pictures (all photos of real children doing interesting things!)

‘Children can you hear me’ by Brad Jersak (I talk about this book here)

‘Comfort in the darkness’ by Rachel Turner (read our review here)

And not forgetting ‘Our family GodVenture’ by Victoria Beech which we are still enjoying on Fridays when we have a ‘sabbath’ meal together.

And ‘Topz’ books (produced by CWR) have also been enjoyed over the years – we’re not there with T yet, they were great when A wanted something to get stuck into on his own.

Would love to know your recommendations, are you enjoying any particular Bible devotions/thoughts for the day at the moment? .. leave suggestions in the comments..

 

 

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bedtime

Sorry it’s been SO long since I last wrote – how are you all?

I can hardly believe we are now back in school routine, first week of the new term has been navigated – with Andrew away into the mix, a supply teacher for T at the end of the week, and a friend for tea after school today. Of course it seemed the perfect week (in a moment of madness, or desperation…not sure which to be honest) to throw in changing T’s bed from a loft bed to a low cabin bed and while we’re at it why not repaint too! what was I thinking??!

The desperation began in the run up to the new term, with bedtimes becoming as always much more of a battle, full of anxiety and adrenaline. Meltdowns happen so quickly and frequently when anxieties are high, and the aggressive, unpredictable behaviour that comes with them feels very unsafe in a loft bed. We got the loft bed when she was growing out of the toddler bed, to give her more space and under it to be able to create a hideaway – both of which has worked brilliantly. But for me the risks are increasing as she gets bigger and stronger, and the end of last week as school began to loom intensely it began to feel quite unmanageable.

So, we have dismantled the bottom layer of the high bed (thankfully it came in sections) and removed the ladder. I say we because I thought I’d managed that far on my own but when our lovely staff lunch had finished praying yesterday and were willing to help me lift the top section down off it’s lowest section it became quite clear all I had managed on my own was to get in a muddle – an allen key and others’ help found the right bolts to undo and put others back that were still needed and then we could lift down the bed!

As I was scheming and working out how possible it would be to do all this I also got to thinking about the colour of the room – one of T’s favourites, yellow. We had chosen a warm soft, almost apricot yellow before we moved in – and the decorators came in and painted – but somehow in translation the yellow had changed into a rather sour lemon if you can imagine that. Zingy rather than gentle. So I got to thinking that maybe this was my chance to tone it down a bit and bring a bit more calm to the room – every little helps. And knowing that even tidying the bedrooms can be an upheaval for the girls I was going to be causing an emotional earthquake by changing the bed, so why not slip in some new paint at the same time rather than creating another earthquake later on in the year? So far T seems to be mostly accepting the changes, and is coping relatively well.

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So I rummaged in the garage to see what we had enough of and found a dark creamy colour for interior walls and a small rather unreliable paint roller and tray and the painting has begun – 2 walls done, 2 to go! Feeling a bit like supermum! (that won’t last, I’ll be utterly exhausted when I finish it and the adrenaline rush subsides!)

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And that completes the first week of term. Kids were fed, hugged, played with and prayed with. Schools were attended, homework has been done (though still more to tackle), instruments have been heard, and swimming lessons, brownies, youth group were remembered on the right days – and chocolate was eaten! Hoping next week is a bit more run of the mill to be honest, but they rarely are!

 

 

 

 

welcome the new year

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Apparently it’s 2018!

Happy New Year!!

Today has been filled with precious last conversations and laughter with family who have been staying, before we all get back to our work & school routines. Followed by hoovering and getting our three back and settled in their own rooms again after a full house and camping beds in every possible place you could imagine.

We all went to church together yesterday in the morning, crammed into 2 rows (there were 15 of us at that point). T was particularly restless, so excited to have all her cousins with her. So one by one all the fidget toys came out of my bag, and the usual pen & paper. I was a little discouraged – the service was of course being led brilliantly by two of our team. It was interactive, accessible, fun – there was nothing T couldn’t join in with, on paper – I find it hard some weeks when she appears to be so distracted. She did enjoy the singing though & it’s always a delight to worship alongside her in song.

A new year seems incredibly daunting don’t you think. All the unknowns and some known challenges on the horizon; GCSE exams at school for B, music grades for A, post 16 choices for B, move up to juniors for T…  Somehow sitting being reminded of trusting God and listening for his voice in every challenge ahead – with a restless, squirming T on & off (& on & off!) on my knee I was deeply aware of just how uphill a year can feel.

But I just wanted to share with you what wriggly T drew in the notebook during the service, because it encouraged me to trust:

She was taking it all in. She was listening for God’s voice in the midst of the busy wriggling, the excitement, the joy, and the frustrations of that service.

We learnt a very apt memory verse during the service, and T jotted down the prompts on the next page of the notebook:

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calm woodland corner

Well, schools have finally broken up for the Christmas holidays, and we have our first visitors arriving tomorrow. So in preparation I spent some of today creating a calm corner for the girls (and anyone else of course!) to use when they need some space or need to work at calming down.

We have a little gap behind the sofa in the sitting room. It’s very small but maybe that is in its favour – it’s definitely a ‘one at a time’ kind of space!

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I have made a mobile above the space with paper snowflakes which moves and spins slowly as the air moves in the room. I have collected together some pine cones and wood, some laminated autumn leaves and brought a natural woodland feel right into the corner. T has a mood colour night light hedgehog so he’s moved in too.

Our scottie dog doorstop is soft and happily brings some weight onto a little one’s knees to ground them and bring a sense of safety. And our soft cuddly snowman sits ready for a squeeze.

To make use of the radiator that I can’t move out of the way, I have laminated some clip art woodland animals, and cut out some basic silhouette trees – added some magnets onto the backs and created a quick ‘make your own woodland scene’ which can be fiddled with, can inspire stories and become absorbing. As I cut the shapes out I tried to make sure there were no sharp corners or edges so it’s all smooth to touch.

Next I have made a lap size light box from a small household opaque plastic tub with a lid and some LED lights. I will put some tissue paper shapes and some coloured plastic counters that can be arranged on the lid and played around with enjoying the light.

Then I have collected some fidget toys, puzzles and sensory activities into a basket the other side of some cosy cushions. There are a lot of DIY ideas to try. We liked these…

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  • ‘our best bites’ have instructions for homemade snow globes
  • ‘red ted art’ has printable mesmerizing flextangles
  • ‘Views from a step stool’ has instructions for a Christmas themed sensory bag
  • DIY light box instructions from ‘the imagination tree’.
  • fabric marble maze instructions from Yvonne Reynolds (I’m making mine from felt, and tree shaped for my woodland calm corner).

But we also added a sand timer, a Christmas I spy jar we made last year using rice and little pictures and sequins, a tactile snowflake made from fluffy pipe cleaners and hair bobbles with big beads on, a couple of simple puzzles, a Christmas stencil with pens and a pad of paper for doodling, and a create your own story game that we have.

I like the printables for the calm down kit from ‘the chaos and the clutter’ which give suggestions for how to calm down. If I have time I will put something together on a woodland theme. Maybe ‘curl into a tight ball like a hedgehog’ or ‘take a deep breath like the owl flying’, ‘warm up the snowman with a tight cuddle’ ? Any suggestions welcome! …

 

 

 

 

It’s just a cold!

‘It’s just a cold!’ (or; ‘It’s just the straw that broke the camel’s back’)

What a month. We have limped through a sickness bug, throat infection, cough and heavy cold… and last night the throat infection was returning, and T’s cough & cold seemed to be having another blip…

School has had to be missed by all 3 at different times over the last few weeks. Church has had to be missed. Many of my diary things have had to be cancelled and take a back seat, and I’ve been late & last minute for many other things. Sleep has largely been missed too.

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The trouble with illness is partly the disruption to usual patterns and routines and the anxiety that causes. And when it goes on for a chunk of time it’s also troublesome to break the newly formed patterns like ‘sleeping’ on the sofa – you sit up on sofas so it’s an acceptable place to be propped up, whereas beds are for lying down in so being propped up in bed is awkward and hard to accept. Or the transition from being at home to having to go back to school – especially after the exhaustion of getting used to not being where you are ‘meant to be’ for the last day or two. And none of these transitions are very predictable, I can’t give advance warning, I can’t put them to bed at night absolutely certain that tomorrow will be the day to return to school, it has to be ‘lets see how you are in the morning’, or ‘we’ll have to check your temperature and then decide’…

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The trouble with illness in a family is partly high anxiety. Anxieties run particularly high about sickness bugs, but happen with all the common illnesses that come and go. Quarantines have to be established. Panic at other people ‘touching my things’ or being too close, ‘in my bubble’ reaches another level. Many times when one person in the family is ill others become genuinely physically unwell brought on by anxiety – which of course I can never be absolutely certain of, so the same quarantine procedure has to be put in place which although helps some makes that person feel even more unwell.  Yes there’s plenty of anxiety about catching whatever it is. But there’s also high anxiety about the different physical sensations about the symptoms. Some sensations are intolerable, creating regular sensory overload and meltdowns – especially difficult in the nighttime. Some sensations are just plain frightening, which causes huge unmanageable emotion also resulting in meltdowns.

The trouble with illness is the difficulties of communicating and understanding. ASD for us includes difficulties distinguishing emotions (Alexithymia is the name for this, we often think of it in terms of emotional literacy) which makes it incredibly difficult to even know what’s being felt and then there’s the other hurdle of putting it into words. Emotions and physical sensations all roll into one big bundle of overload that is very difficult to manage, self-regulate, and generally put up with! And all Andrew & I can really do is try to keep things as calm as we can (not easy) and try to help name things for them which can sometimes help to break that bundle down into smaller packages. We can provide some structure and safety, the temperature checking, the written down times for painkillers, the bringing of water, food and stories.

The trouble with illness is partly the need for medication, and doctors visits where they might poke and prod, or even worse ask questions! Medicines are a big difficulty, many we cannot even get near to our girls with, some can be swallowed but are unlikely to stay down, some we can eventually get them to take but the ritual that ends up evolving will be long (very long at times) and painstaking – having to be in the right place in the house, or followed quickly by the ‘right’ squash, or yoghurt, and often having to have complete privacy and silence to be able to cope with taking it… whatever the ritual becomes, it will be riddled with anxiety, stress (and the parent pressure of knowing it’s necessary for them to take in order to get better) and tears… which brings me swiftly on to…

The trouble with illness is partly the anxiety it evokes in Andrew & I about the long term impact it has on us all. We worry intensely about whether the break in the routine of eating (relatively well) will be near impossible to come back from. And despite it being a ‘good patch’, with weight gain and more energy than ever before it is something I have yet to relax about. We worry intensely about whether we are missing something serious when it is difficult to find out what is hurting/different/bothering them, so our usual high alert goes into overdrive. We worry that we may never get any sleep, ever – which may seem irrational, but seems to be backed up by an awful lot of evidence when I sit and dwell on it. We worry we will run out of the energy we will need to keep going and step up to the challenge of establishing ‘normal’ routines again once they are better.

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And we have to lean back onto our faith that we are not doing all this alone, or in just our own strength. That we are loved by a Father who knows we worry and loves us still. Who understands us and our three unique children especially when we are struggling to understand, and who knows what we need.